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  • Spiritual Growth

    SPIRITUAL, RELIGIOUS OR NEITHER?

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    Taking a look at spirituality and religion, the places they overlap, and the practices that support them.

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Fiction

    A CONVERSATION WITH ANGER

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    purple bugged eyed monster makes one question the purpose of living

    When George found himself trapped in a room with Anger, he didn't recognize it as his own. His conversation turns his fear into empowerment.

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  • Spiritual Growth

    WHAT IS THE MEANING OF ‘RITUAL’?

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    Rituals are an important part of our daily lives, but what is a ritual and who is qualified to carry one out? What makes a ritual sacred? Here…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Spiritual Growth

    HOW DOES PREJUDICE HAPPEN?

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    Prejudice, an opinion based not on facts but on limited personal experience, is part of the fabric of our lives, either as holder or recipient. This article is…

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  • Spiritual Growth

    WHAT IS MORNING PRACTICE?

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    Many coaches and guides recommend beginning your day with a spiritual practice. What is that? And how do you do that?

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Life Challenges

    LEARNING TO WALK…AGAIN

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    The author draws from her own experience in learning to walk again after a flare-up of multiple sclerosis to inspire anyone who finds themselves sidelined by accident, illness,…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Spiritual Growth

    HOW TO PRACTICE THE ART OF OF WAITING

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    Waiting is one of life's challenges that everyone gets to practice sooner or later. Waiting can be difficult or easy depending on the outcome. This article takes a…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Creativity

    8 WAYS TO FIND INSPIRATION

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    Being creative is a matter of knowing how to show hospitality to Inspiration and there are a number of ways to invite Inspiration to visit. Here are 7…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Spiritual Growth

    HOW TO FORGIVE WHEN IT HURTS

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    How do we forgive when we have been betrayed? Is it possible to move forward while still bleeding from the wounds? In a society that tells us to…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Spiritual Growth

    WHAT IS BREAKING A VOW?

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    Breaking a vow made with the whole heart can be devastating at worst; life-changing at best. This article is a look at the forces that may bring about…

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  • Life Challenges,  Spiritual Growth

    KEEPING YOUR BALANCE SPIRITUALLY

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    There are some ways to keep standing when the world seems upside down that involve finding insight, protecting your inner ears, and making choices aid in balance.

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  • Spiritual Growth

    A PERSONAL LOOK AT RACISM

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    5 eggs balancing in a tower

    Because I live in a geographic area where there is more diversity in the eggs I eat than in my neighbors, I hid behind the myth that racial…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Caregiving,  Dekker

    A SERVICE DOG SPEAKS TO CAREGIVERS

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    Dekker standing up on fence

    My name is Dekker. I am a service dog and like many other caregivers, I devote my time and energy 24/7 to a person I love so that…

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  • Spiritual Growth

    8 WAYS TO PRAY WITHOUT WORDS

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    Have you ever found yourself at a loss for words when it comes to prayer? There are other ways to pray that do not call for using language.…

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    Ardis Mayo
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    Become part of a growing community of thoughtful readers and receive "Seeds of Reflection" from TheReflectivePen every Sunday, with links to new blog posts.

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