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    Five Ways You Can Find the Sacred in the Ordinary

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    sacred in the ordinary teacup; feed a hungry soul

    This summary of five ways to find the sacred in the ordinary is offered as examples of an infinite resource for anyone thirsty for wisdom and insight.  Holding…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Aging

    WHAT IS THE SECRET OF AGING WELL?

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    Growing old isn't an option for most people. How we look at it is a choice and the secret to aging well may lie in the language we…

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  • Spiritual Growth

    WHAT IS MORNING PRACTICE?

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    Many coaches and guides recommend beginning your day with a spiritual practice. What is that? And how do you do that?

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  • Creativity

    8 WAYS TO FIND INSPIRATION

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    Being creative is a matter of knowing how to show hospitality to Inspiration and there are a number of ways to invite Inspiration to visit. Here are 7…

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  • Spiritual Growth

    8 WAYS TO PRAY WITHOUT WORDS

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    Have you ever found yourself at a loss for words when it comes to prayer? There are other ways to pray that do not call for using language.…

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  • Spiritual Growth

    HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE A CONTEMPLATIVE

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    A contemplative dog rests his chin on the sheets as he ponders the purpose of living

    You may wonder why your dance in the world seems to have a different rhythm...To be a contemplative is to treasure solitude and not be lonely.  To see…

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  • Spiritual Growth

    How To Be Motivated by Tiny Rewards

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    Tiny rewards that motivate and bring joy

    Kibble as a spiritual practice is not just for dogs. The importance of small rewards can be very motivational and this essay looks at how.

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  • Spiritual Growth

    5 Spiritual Lessons You Can Learn From Your Dog

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    Are you looking for a spiritual guide to lead you into a deeper understanding of yourself? Your next guru may be as close as your dog. . .

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  • Spiritual Growth

    SOME SIGNS OF BEING A CONTEMPLATIVE

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    A contemplative dog rests his chin on the sheets as he ponders the purpose of living

    Did you ever wonder if you would make a good monk? You might want to know some signs that you may already be a contemplative. Here are some…

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