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  • Dekker,  Life Challenges

    Dekker Reflects on Retirement

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    dekker sleepinig, during illness, retirement retirement

    I have been thinking about this thing called retirement. When I say thinking, I do not mean the way humans think. Humans sit in chairs with notebooks and…

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    DEKKER LOOKS AHEAD

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    There comes a time, I think, when every working dog deserves the same thing every human longs for as they age…permission to lay down the harness without laying…

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    Dekker’s Wisdom

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    There are some forms of wisdom that don’t announce themselves. They don’t come with degrees or titles, or even with words most of the time. They come in…

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    THINGS I WISH SOMEONE HAD TOLD ME

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    Dekker, service dog posing on granite slab

    Today, I want to share the essence of the speech I gave on the day Dekker graduated after 18 months of training at NEADS in Massachusetts. He is…

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    Dekker on Ice Fishing

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    Dekker the Service Dog waits by a fog with mist

    The calendar insists spring is near, though the yard has not yet agreed. Sometimes, when the snow lingers longer than anyone thinks reasonable, I ask Dekker to weigh…

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  • Dekker,  Life Challenges

    Illness Through a Dog’s Eyes

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    What Love Looks Like When Healing Is Slow Woof woof, friends,Something shifted in the house a couple of weeks ago—before anyone said a word.Illness has a way of…

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    Dekker’s Thoughts About Legacy

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    Woof woof… it’s me, Dekker. I’m lying here in my favorite sunspot while my person taps on her keyboard about something called legacy...and I wonder...

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  • Dekker,  Life Challenges

    Dekker, On Wisdom, Worry and The Weight of the World

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    Dekker reads a book

    Maybe it’s the season of “too”:  too much news, too many expectations, too many lists. Or maybe it’s that time feels heavier when the light fades early. Whatever…

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  • Dekker,  Life Challenges

    Wisdom from Dekker

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    As I, Dekker the seasonal observer, lie by the fireplace (yes, I scoot closer than I’m supposed to), I’ve been noticing a change in the house.

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  • Dekker,  Life Challenges

    Wisdom from Dekker in Autumn

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    Dekker, service dog posing on granite slab

    As I, Dekker the observer, lie with my nose near the door and my paws outstretched like a proper gentleman, I can tell… something is changing. The air…

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  • Dekker,  Life Challenges

    Wisdom from Dekker

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    Dekker, the dog who has a lot of wisdom

    When the Days Are Slow and the Heart Is Full, As I, Dekker the ever-faithful, stretch out beside my person’s feet (finally!), I must tell you something: she...

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    Wisdom from Dekker

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    Dekker the Service Dog waits by a fog with mist

    As I, Dekker the Service Dog, settle in with my nose tucked under one paw and the other stretched out just far enough to feel the cool tile,…

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    Wisdom from Dekker: What Our Pets Leave Behind (and What They Don’t)

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    Dekker, the dog who has a lot of wisdom

    Wisdom from Dekker: What Our Pets Leave Behind (and What They Don’t) As I, known by all as Dekker, lie in my favorite sunspot by the window, I…

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    Dekker Writes Again

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    Dekker sleeps on organ pedals, rest

    Slowing Down, Stretching Out, and Smelling What Matters  As I (Dekker—service dog, squirrel whisperer, and expert in naps) stretch out in a sunny patch on the floor, I…

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    Wisdom from Dekker

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    Dekker, service dog posing on granite slab

    As I, known by all as Dekker, lie here in my favorite sunspot by the window, I think about the curious human problems people ask me about.

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