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  • Life Challenges,  Spiritual Growth

    Learning to Sit Alone With Feelings

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    learning to sit - a chair by the edge of a lake

    Learning to sit is a common Buddhist practice but for this author, the road to sitting was marked by an illness accompanied by cognitive loss that did not…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Aging

    HAS YOUR “BEST IF USED BY” DATE PASSED?

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    strawberry with a 'best if used by' date

    Do you have a "Best if used by" date on your life? What if that date has passed and you find yourself still sitting on the shelf? Here…

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  • Aging

    HOW DO YOU DEFINE GROWING OLD?

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    The definition of 'aging' depends on a lot more things than one's chronological age and how we define it can influence how we live it.

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  • Creativity

    ON THE IMPORTANCE OF WRITING

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    levenger fountain pen

    The importance of writing surpasses our objections to the reasons we do not write and motivates more creativity with every word.

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  • Caregiving

    HOW TO CARE FOR A CAREGIVER

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    weary woman at her desk

    If there are fifty-three million caregivers in the U.S. (2020 Caregiving in the U.S. report from AARP) there must be at least that many friends or neighbors of caregivers. Are you…

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  • Life Challenges

    WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU CAN’T SLEEP

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    Sleeping lamb, humility

    Sleeping may not be the problem we think it is if we learn to sleep according to our bodily rhythms instead of by the clock.

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  • Aging

    WHAT IS THE SECRET OF AGING WELL?

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    chalk figures on a sidewalk

    Growing old isn't an option for most people. How we look at it is a choice and the secret to aging well may lie in the language we…

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  • Creativity

    THE THRILL OF BEING A WRITER

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    Boy at the end of a thrilling slide

    An aspiring writer asks how old is too old to take up with art of writing by comparing it to a thrill ride at the fair.

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  • Aging

    AGING AS A CAUSE TO CELEBRATE

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    The hands of an aging woman are clasped and resting in her lap. she wonders about meaning and purpose of growing old

    Aging is universal across time and place. We all age. The question is, are we going to quake as we age or celebrate each step along the way?

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