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Dekker on Aging
Hi. If we haven't met before, my name is Dekker. I welcome you to this site where I write once a month to help people out with their…
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How do you answer the question Who are you?
If you have ever been asked "who do you think you are?" how do you answer? I recently wrote a post about authenticity in which I ended with…
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What Does it Mean to Live with Authenticity?
What does it mean to live with authenticity? I have never given much thought to who the REAL Ardis is—underneath my fears, beneath my fantasies, even behind my…
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Dekker Shares His Observations About People
Woof Woof!! My name is Dekker, and once a month I get to share my observations about people's behavior and answer questions that readers (and sometimes their pets)…
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When Technology, Spirituality, and Religion Each Call
Sometimes we feel a call from technology, religion, and spirituality at the same time. Religions, as well as spiritual practices, are not right for everyone. I didn’t always…
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A Season of Grief and Thanksgiving
His last words before he left for surgery were "Don't let me die." There was no time for a conversation about what could arise between life and death.
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Journaling Your Way to Inner Health
Journaling can be a wonderful way to increase inner health, a way to be heard, a way to forgiveness for yourself and others, or a road out of…
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Dekker’s Bone
Dekker, a world-class service dog offers his profound wisdom to people seeking advice and makes no excuses for his service.
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What is the Imposter Syndrome?
Imposter syndrome can be recognized by an inner voice saying "Who do you think you are?" when you are only doing what you set out to do.
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What Does It Mean To ‘Grow Up’
What does it mean to 'grow up'? Is it a matter of age or mindset? The article takes a look at how we can relive our childhood 'for…
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How To Satisfy Your Spiritual Hunger
When you experience spiritual hunger where do you turn to satisfy it? Many people find a fount of spiritual blessing in places like a forest path, or a…
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How to pray for your enemies
I have a confession to make. I find it difficult to pray for my enemies - people I abhor for good reason. I even fall short of praying…
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Dekker Speaks Up
Do you listen to your dog or cat (or even chicken or horse) to hear what they have to say about life? Dekker will teach you how.sd
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How to Welcome the Feeling of Vulnerability
Vulnerability - the scary feeling that arises when someone asks you to speak publically or to explain why you made a certain decision. If you have ever worn…
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What Is The Meaning of ‘Bread Broken For You’?
Bread is a perfect metaphor for our bodies. When Jesus held up a loaf of bread and said "This is my body broken for you" he used a…
