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    How to be a Writer Begins with a First Draft

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    Have you ever stared at a blank piece of paper wanting to write the first draft of something important and nothing happens?  Your brain goes blank, you put…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Spiritual Growth,  Uncategorized

    Do You Let The Fear of Missing Out Control Your Life?

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    a cat with with a fear of missing out leaning out a window Ardis Mayo, the stories we tell ourselves

    The term FOMO, fear of missing out, describes the anxiety that arises with thoughts that there may be a better, more fulling experience than we are having right…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Spiritual Growth

    Where to look when you want to find God

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    boy looks through binoculars to find god,Ardis Mayo

    Where do you look when you want to find God? Is it a place? Perhaps a state of mind? In others or in nature? Join with the author's…

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  • Spiritual Growth

    How to Live Fully and Get the Most Out of Life

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    man who knows how to live fully lifts his arms to the sunset

    But what does it mean to live fully? And how can we achieve it? here are five tips for living a full life that includes purpose, faith, risks,…

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  • Dekker,  Spiritual Growth

    Dekker Speaks Out About God and Prayer

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    Dekker with Ardis Mayo

    Dekker weighs in on question asked by people who

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  • Spiritual Growth

    How our spirituality is affected by aging

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    Our spiritualty is a result of many factors, but growing older may be one of the most important. This article looks at how spirituality is affected by aging.

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  • Life Challenges,  Spiritual Growth

    What is the Value of Failure

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    man holds hands to face in shame for not knowing the value of failure

    When we count all of our assets toward the end of life, we don't want to forget the value of failure that has given us seeds of wisdom…

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  • Creativity,  Spiritual Growth

    How to Hear Music as Metaphor for Life

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    music as metaphor

    How music is a metaphor for a life orchestrated in melody, rhythm, and silence.

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  • Dekker

    Dekker offers advice about birdfeeders and Covid

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    Dekker

    Dekker, the service dog who shares his wisdom with people, once again offers advice to people, this time about birdfeeders, Covid, and more.

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  • Spiritual Growth

    Why Tiny Things Matter Most in Life

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    yellow flower as example of a tiny thing held in cupped hands, gardening prayer

    It is hard to grasp that tiny things can make the biggest impact on our lives. Little details are essential in achieving long-term goals.

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  • Life Challenges,  Spiritual Growth

    Two ways you can begin practicing for death today

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    embracing stone statue to depict practicing for death...or joy in difficult times

    We find the strength for accepting death when we have been showing hospitality to death all along. This article lays out two ways to do this.

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  • Spiritual Growth

    What is the Meaning and Purpose to Life as we Age

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    leaves on a branch as an icon of the meaning and purpose to life growing old

    Does the meaning of life change as we age? I wonder if our purpose is embedded within our body and soul when we are born and then we…

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  • Spiritual Growth

    Hello and Goodbye – Which Do You Find Easier?

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    man waving hello and goodbye from a car window

    This reflection begins with seven questions to put a little light on something we spend a lifetime celebrating or agonizing over — whether ’tis easier to say “Hello”…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Dekker

    Dekker Answers More Questions About Service Dogs – Part ll

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    Dekker

    In this second of a two-part series Dekker answer more questions about what it means to be a service dog and explains the difference between a guide dog,…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Spiritual Growth

    What do technology and spirituality have in common

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    a woman uses her laptop computer as technology for spiritual growth by connecting with friends all over the world

    Although technology isn't often recognized for its role in spiritual, or inner, growth, this article looks at its role in spirituality as well as creativity.

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