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  • Aging,  Life Challenges,  Spiritual Growth

    The Sound of Silence: Reflections on What Lies Beyond Death

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    Woman with questioning face wonders about sound of silence. mind reading

    Have you ever experienced a moment so quiet you could hear your own heartbeat? When my father passed away, I discovered a special kind of silence in his…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Life Challenges

    When Should You Call Hospice?

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    two hands reaching for support, when should you call hospice

    Are you afraid to call for hospice care when someone you love is very ill? We will all die. And if we are fortunate, we will have enough…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Life Challenges

    How to Say Goodbye – For The Last time

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    man facing sunset with suitcase in his hand. HOw to say goodbye

    How do you know what to say goodbye when someone is dying? It could be you... Do you know how or what to say at the end of…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Life Challenges

    The Benefits of Preparing for Death—It’s not as morbid as you think

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    A group of hands holding fall leaves perhaps pondering death in autumn. is there meaning and purpose in growing old

    Do you find yourself avoiding any thoughts about death…your own or that of someone you love? You would be among the majority. There will even be some readers…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Life Challenges

    A Positive View of the End of Life

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    Woman sitting in the power of silence on a mournain peak, stories wondering if she were religious, learning to be a human being

    At some point in our lives, we will all have to face the inevitability of death. For many, the thought of the end of life can be daunting…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Life Challenges

    Do You Know What To Do Before Being Hit by a Bus?

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    People don’t often survive a head-on collision with a speeding bus when they are out for an evening stroll. It is often easier to talk about buses than…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Life Challenges,  Spiritual Growth

    Two ways you can begin practicing for death today

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    embracing stone statue to depict practicing for death...or joy in difficult times

    We find the strength for accepting death when we have been showing hospitality to death all along. This article lays out two ways to do this.

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Dekker

    Dekker responds to questions about God

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    Dekker has wisdom about God

    Dekker, a service dog whose wisdom is treasured by many people, turns to questions about the existence and nature of God with his perspective on prayers, heaven and…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Aging,  Spiritual Growth

    Three more lists besides a bucket list you may want to consider

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    bucket list on a chalkboard

    Besides a bucket list, here are three more lists that you may want to keep and share with friends and family before you die.

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Life Challenges

    How to be a Comfort to Someone Who is Terminally Ill

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    two people with clasped hands talking about death

    Comforting someone who is terminally ill calls for learning to listen, to be present, to encourage a life review, and to be vulnerable.

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Life Challenges,  Spiritual Growth

    When You Sit With a Dying Person

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    mystery that is revealed when you sit with a dying person illustrated by feather floating above an open hand

    How to look beyond grief and find peace while sitting at the bedside of a loved one who is dying is explained in comparison to childbirth. The joy…

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Spiritual Growth

    WHAT IS MORNING PRACTICE?

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    low angle shot of tall trees

    Many coaches and guides recommend beginning your day with a spiritual practice. What is that? And how do you do that?

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    Ardis Mayo
  • Spiritual Growth

    How to Leave a Legacy of Story

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    The importance of recording your story to leave as a legacy for your descendants, based on the metaphors of a hike towards a waterfall.

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    Ardis Mayo

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